Do you know that most individuals lose touch with the joyful, optimistic, confident, self respecting, whole, peaceful, resilient, and worthy self they were early in life? Do you know that the "personality" they become not only feels like a "false imposter-like self" but it also buries the true authentic self, exiles it from its own mind/body/life and hijacks that life often onto a self destructive trajectory that is next to impossible to get off unless one knows how? So how does one do that, you ask?
If you have any connection to how you felt as a child before you began to go to "sleep" and lose your "self" you will probably also a) wonder what could have caused this and b) have a heartfelt longing to recover that lost experience.
Well here's what happened.
As one comes into this reality they arrive with all of their Life Force Energy installed in their body. This makes them healthy, radiant, cute, happy, and attractive to name a few. This is why it makes one feel so good being around a new baby. They simply exude a youthful and beautiful energy that lights up the hearts of most adults and makes them feel happy and young again.
In other words babies still have a connection to their authentic self. This as many know gets lost as they grow into adults but not simply because they are becoming adults. The reality within which many are born often does not allow for or recognise the true authentic nature of the newborn and instead rapidly descends upon it to impose its endless set of rules.
These rules, that come from interpersonal, familial, cultural, religious and other systems often invalidate, stifle, suffocate and over ride the true authentic essence of each newborn being. In order to survive the growing baby learns to quickly sacrifice (and hide) its true authentic self for an adaptive "false self" that will supposedly be acceptable to the outside world thereby allowing it to avoid undue pain, rejection, stress, anxiety, sadness, and therefore allows it to grow up into a fully functioning adult.
So what is being said, in short, is that one must sacrifice one's true self in order to survive, grow up and become a fully functioning human being.
Do you see the faulty logic in this?
If not, let me point it out. As soon as one has sacrificed one's true self they have essentially ceased to exist i.e. they have effectively died! So what kind of existence does that make for? Well, no existence at all!
This is why so many people feel depressed, unfulfilled, numb, disconnected with themselves and their true feelings, and are unable to create satisfying relationships and happy lives. That's because they are not even "showing up". This is often also associated with a deep feeling of emptiness that nothing ever seems to be able to fill. Yes, many try to fill it with things such as money, food, power, work, sex, drugs, alcohol etc. but at the end of the day the emptiness seems bottomless.
What's interesting about this situation is that the "false self" state is actually much like a hypnotic trance that one can fully and permanently awaken from. That awakening is actualized each time the deep negative programming in the form of negative memories associated with early negative experiences are brought to consciousness and erased.
Over 10 years ago it was discovered that this could be accomplished readily with a simple coaching process that is available to anyone in the world. To learn more about this kindly visit the web site below where you can request a free introductory consultation that will help you begin to wake up and free your authentic and empowered self.
Nick Arrizza MD, a former Psychiatrist and Medical Doctor is now an International Life, Executive, Spiritual Tele-Coach, Author the developer of the powerful Mind Resonance Process® (MRP).
A Free 1 Hour Introductory MRP Telephone/Skype Consultation and a Free E-copy of my new book are available upon request. (You will be asked to cover your own long distance telephone charges)
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