"Happiness does not depend on external conditions, characterized by our mental attitude."
-Dale Carnegie
There are opposites to everything in life; yin and yang. And there are no two greater opposites which may affect your life, over whether the planet with a walk around the negative or positive attitude. I am sure that you've been around someone who has just delivered the creeps. You may even have to sense a negative energy from them and those types of people generally make you feel uncomfortable.
On the other hand, was probably the experience, about someone who everyone seems to gravitate towards. There's something about the person who like it, they seem to make life fun and they are always smiling. There is no question that a person will be rather you spend the day with, which would rather avoid being around.
You can almost feel, if someone has a negative or positive energy. You can look at them and see the difference almost immediately in their expressions, their status and in their eyes. And as soon as they open their mouth you will know without question that the path this person goes down.
This can be difficult when you need to spend any amount of time from one of these types, i.e. can you work with someone who moves You down, or someone in your family is a member of a club or worse yet, he is married to the negative people and Can't get out. This can be very draining on you mentally and emotionally.
Sad part is that people have a choice in how to approach life. They see the glass half full or half empty. This may be cynical, negative, or the user may be positive and serious instead. Look on the side of the bright things and celebrating life or can live on the dark side and believe that there will be the worst.
So what type are you? How you can wake up each day, either positive or negative? You can expect the best, and live with gratitude, or do you dread your day and have nothing to look forward to? You can try and make best use of the goods or wallow in self-pity and lived with the victim mentality?
Being a witness to someone who is negative and the effect that has on the other should be enough to make sure that you have the kind of life that makes people use, but you can instead of running around from you when they see you coming!
Remember, he's everything i way to view life is choices, so choose wisely.
Susan Russo is a writer, speaker and coach, who inspires, emancipation, and the tools and strategies to help you move toward your personal success and satisfaction. She is the author of "there's Life after what's His name-and 7-key to unlock the Power Within You. Susan is also a co-author: the success and happiness expert reveals the secrets to 16. Check out the blog Renaty unhide the hidden power on: http://www.susan-russo.com/
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