"When we change, we can change our world." For the first time I heard this phrase I just went, ' Yeah, that sounds cool and kind of interesting guru, but what does it actually say check? " This meant nothing at all is only really heard it and finally place this "change" things. Then became the power that drives my life.
For many many of my more than fifty years and struggled and moaned and groaned, and information about life. You will not be the way I wanted. People don't do what I wanted. Events do not evolve in a color that I expected. Life was hard and boring and ran like Hell from him. I hid in the television and shopping, the other guy and panstewko do the same darned daily thinking somehow tomorrow was going to be different. Peggy Lee had nothing about me its warbling "is that all there is?"
My life has stopped in the stagnant status quo until I decided that it was time to do something. It is time for me to change. I was trying to change you; To change the weather; If you want to change my mother-in-law; If you want to change my parents; If you want to change my children; If you want to change my boss; To change the world. I was miserably and I was miserable and really, actually consumed.
I understand finally that this stuff changes must come from me. I needed a change the way I was going about it the whole life. He will continue to be "victims," the abolition of the blame for my activities on someone else? No!--chose a proactive move to my life with the thoughts and actions. Finally, I saw that I was actually driving this thing, not my father or mother, sister or brother, husband or lover. Me!
I tried to change my expectations. I was wandering around the rigid results plastered on every movement, introduced. "If you do this then you will be." And if the result does not match My concepts, was I pissed off and angry and full of self-pity. So now I have expectations. I hope that things will work, as I think they will. And if not, most of the time, what happened, is better than I planned, or at least a hell of a lot more interesting.
The biggest change I now embrace? "It's what it is." What freedoms and peace exists in the simple instructions. Really I have no control over anything or anyone but me. So instead of complaining and bemoaning the fate, select go to the fate of the big smile and open heart.
Changing My thinking and accept things simply, they are my world has changed. This time, the enigmatic statement of "change" is now an action that My powers and creates a feeling of real days of peace. So, how about you? Do you want to change your world?
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